Bennett Mitchell Speck

JOURNAL

September 28th - Day 40, 2:30pm
posted on 09/28/2007

Friends and family, from the bottom of our hearts we want to say thank you for your prayers for Bennett, and for your prayers for us during our meeting.  We needed them, and we felt them.

Respiratory-wise, Bennett is doing ok today.  He is fine right now and resting much more peacefully than a couple of hours ago.  When we got to the hospital he was having a "moment" and his readings were pretty bad.  Essentially he was having a bronchial spasm (kind of like an asthma attack), and as a result he just wasn't getting the oxygen he needed.  SO, there was a lot of action around Bennett when we first arrived, but they were eventually able to settle him down and he currently remains on CPAP.  Their goal is to do whatever it takes to not have to intubate him again.

Our meeting with the pediatric neurologist was heavy, but necessary.  We were reminded that all readings and examinations are preliminary, and that it will most likely take months (and maybe years) to fully realize exactly what challenges he will face. 

With that said, the doctors shared several concerns with us as potential problems.  The neurologist examined Bennett earlier this morning, and he found increased tone (stiffness, etc) on the left side of his body.  I share this potential diagnosis with you cautiously, because that's how it was presented to us.  But at the same time, because it was shared with us, we want to share it with you.  Because of the initial trauma to Bennett and because of the lack of oxygen to his brain, areas of tissue in his brain have most likely been permanently damaged.  From the readings of the MRI and the examination of Bennett himself, the neurologist believes that Bennett will likely have some degree of cerebral palsy (CP).  There are many degrees of severity of CP, and the neurologist stressed that at this point there is just no way to tell how severe (if severe at all) it will be.  But he will most likely have some form of CP that the staff has already assured us will be aggressively treated with intense occupational and physical therapy.  The sooner Bennett can breath on his own, the sooner this therapy can begin.

His cognitive functioning, at this point, looks "ok."  Again, it will take several months or years to fully realize how significant it is.  The neurologist did say that the EEG revealed no seizure activity, but that Bennett is unfortunately at an increased risk for seizures during his lifetime.  No other MRIs or EEGs are planned at this point.

Your comments on Bennett's website are always so encouraging and moving, but today they have been even more so.  We just cannot thank you enough for your love and support.  Last night our nurse told us something that really helped us in how we view this.  She said, "remember that Bennett is going to be exactly who God wants him to be."  So simple, so profound, and so true. 

We praise God for giving us our precious boy, Bennett Mitchell.  God has saved him on numerous occasions, and we are so thankful for all of the many precious moments together He has already blessed us with.  We believe and know that He will make our son exactly who he is supposed to be.  To God be the glory, great things He hath done.

We love you all, and we ask that you continue to lift Bennett up in prayer.  Please continue to pray for his lungs, for his right diaphragm (which is most likely paralyzed temporarily), and for his neurological functions.

If we have more information to share this evening we will post again.  Otherwise, we wish you all a happy weekend, and we'll see you in the morning.

Love,

Travis, Kelly, and Bennett 





Comments:

comment by Amanda Kilgore on 10/01/2007
I think Bennett has already been exactly what God wanted him to be - a symbol of His love, power and devotion. Bennett will always be a precious baby in our hearts, and God will always be guiding him. I am enjoy reading about his fun personality. Sounds like he is getting ready to come home soon!
comment by Deborah Bills on 09/29/2007
Sweet family, I am again honored to know the details of Bennett's medical news. I am so thankful to hear that Bennett's nurse provided comfort to you--that was the Holy Spirit! Bennett WILL in fact be who God created him to be, and for that we can be eternally grateful. Bennett has already changed many lives for the better. God has incredible plans for this little boy.

Love and hugs,
Deborah
comment by JP and Beth on 09/29/2007
We love the three of you so much. God is sovereign and worthy of praise. These words hold more meaning and tension for us than they did yesterday. We are so blessed by your faith and the amazing posts on the site. The verse that keeps coming to mind is John 9:3 concerning the blind man, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life." Thank you Jesus
comment by Kim Wilson on 09/29/2007
Dear Kelly and Travis,
When I look at Bennett's sweet pictures and take in all the medical paraphernalia, I am in awe of the power of God living in that little boy. Our hearts are heavy because as parents we have a deep and almost uncontrollable instinct to keep our children protected from harm, and your doctor visit yesterday challenged that I'm sure. You have so many prayer warriors and like others have said we have all been blessed by your display of unabashed faith.
Ephesians 3:16-27 "I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge-that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever!"
You remain ever in our hearts and prayers, Kim and family
comment by anonymous on 09/29/2007
"For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
Yes, as the nurse stated, "Bennett is going to be exactly who God wants him to be." and in that...there is peace and praise.

"I can do everything through him who gives me strength". Phillipians 4:13

"The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen" Phillipians 4:23
comment by anonymous on 09/29/2007
"For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
Yes, as the nurse stated, "Bennett is going to be exactly who God wants him to be." and in that...there is peace and praise.

"I can do everything through him who gives me strength". Phillipians 4:13

"The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen" Phillipians 4:23
comment by James and April (Brown) Cogburn & Lena on 09/29/2007
Hi Travis, Kelly, and Bennett,

We've been praying for you guys since the Goudeau's let us know. Enjoy each other and remember that we are all here for you. Thank you for sharing your story with us and for allowing us to pray and minister to you. We will continue to lift you up daily.

God Bless!

- April, James, and Lena
comment by anonymous on 09/29/2007
God is working through this preciuous mircle boy. Take each day and soak it in ,see the joy through all this,each moment.Let go and Let God....HE will amaze you, Bennett is truly a precious, miracle boy!!!!!!
comment by Suzy and Jennifer George on 09/28/2007
When God asked: Will anyone volunteer to show my power to the world through the challenges they are to face at birth and beyond, Bennett could not help it, he rushed to the front of the line. God said, Bennett my dear child, do you understand what you're choosing, that just as my own son chose before he came to Earth, you too are choosing to forego the easy path, and Bennett said, I trust that my beautiful mommy and my dear daddy will understand that I put my trust in you Lord to do with me as you will, that the perfection of your creation may be made manifest in every divinely ordained variation. Then God promised Bennett: My dear child, you will dance with joy, and you will sing with jubilation, and you receive abundant love, and you will bring great love to others, and you will be mine for all the days of your life and beyond, and my blessing will be upon you.
comment by ginger on 09/28/2007
Cody is sitting here reading your entry with me, and I wish desperately that you could hear all of the encouraging things, simply for your heart, not from a pt standpoint (although that's encouraging too), that he is saying. Honestly, I am unable to speak through my tears, and so I am going to try and relay his thoughts the best I can...
Instead of thinking of all the difficulties that might face Bennett, think about all the amazing BLESSINGS that God is going to bring to your family. This is obviously all part of a tremendous plan, and it is NO SURPRISE to anyone that God has chosen you and Travis to be Bennett's parents. We are continually in awe of this journey and feel so blessed to have walked with you these 40 days. We will continue and our love for that baby boy just grows daily. May you feel our arms wrapped around you tonight as you rest.
Love you both,
ginger and cody
comment by Alex, Nicole, Olivia and Autumn Dossey on 09/28/2007
We continue to pray for you guys all the time, many times a day. Praying for more miracles and strength. Our hearts ache for you and we are excited for the day you are able to take sweet Bennett home.
comment by John and Dixie on 09/28/2007
"Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance." James 1:2
"Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those that love him." James 1:12
Bennett is that perfect, pure joy. His life has brought such glory to God in these few short weeks. Just think what God has in mind for his life--how many lives he will touch and bring to Him. We feel so blessed to be able to pray for Bennett and your whole family. We continue to be inspired by your faithfulness. We look forward to the day we get to meet your precious boy. We love you all.
comment by Ashley Nelson on 09/28/2007
Sweet friends,
We are prayerful and heavy hearted for you today. I know that God will do amazing and miraculous things. I just can't imagine as parents how exhausting and draining and emotional these days must be. You are in my thoughts. God is making Bennett into who He wants him to be and your family into what he wants your family to be. We sure you guys! Ashley Nelson
comment by Rachel Klick on 09/28/2007
Kell and Trav...this is never the news you "want" to hear and for that I am truly sorry but what an amazing reminder that Bennett is who God intends for him to be just as the 2 of you are the parents Bennett needs. Bennett with God's power has proven to us that not much is going to stop this little boy so I am very excited to see the amazing things that Bennett will do in his life! I will continue to life all of you up to our Father. I pray Bennett's breathing will be like that with brand new perfect lungs and that he will begin feeding very soon. I pray you will be able to take your precious boy home soon. When they day comes you won't know what to do with life outside the NICU but what a blessing that day will be. I love you all very much and am constantly thinking and praying for you. Thank you for showing me and others what it means to praise God through the storms! You are both SO Amazing!
In Him,
Rachel
comment by Donna, John & Julia Eastman on 09/28/2007
Our hearts are with all three of you.

We continue to pray for Bennett.

Much Love,
Donna, John & Julia
comment by Judy Pete and Mom on 09/28/2007
The Great Physician is still working. We will continue to await the day, when our prayers of complete healing are answered. The Almighty cures. Praise God for that little fighter. We love you all.
comment by Ramona on 09/28/2007
I look forward to hearing how sweet Bennett continues to overcome and amaze so many. He certainly is a precious and beautiful and perfect blessing! Praying and praying! Love, Ramona
comment by Amanda and Randall on 09/28/2007
My love for Bennett grows more and more each day. He has a wonderful family, amazing parents, and more friends than anyone! I hope these poses let you all know that we love you, pray for you, and support you. I pray that soon Bennett comes home and you can begin the next part of the journey.
Much love,
Amanda
comment by Andrew & Erin on 09/28/2007
Bennet is a very lucky boy - he has parents, and a God, that love him unconditionally. We are praying that God will continue to give you peace and strength as you meet with doctors. Bennet is precious, and he is perfect.
comment by Shelle & Chris Honeycutt on 09/28/2007
Still praying for you guys and sweet Bennett.
comment by Cynthia, Keith, & Brady on 09/28/2007
Remember the article we gave you...God only picked you to be Bennett's parents because He knew you would be perfect for Bennett. He wouldn't give you too much that you couldn't handle it. You are both so strong-willed and full of wonderful faith. Let those qualities guide you through all of this.

We're thinking of you constantly and you will remain in our thoughts and prayers. We're here if you need anything. If you need a chocolate pick-me-up, Cynthia can bake brownies and we can pay you a visit with them! Just let us know!

Cynthia, Keith, & Brady
comment by Yasmin on 09/28/2007
Thank you so much for the continual updates, they are so important for all of us who are praying and thinking of you. I love what others have posted- there is a higher plan and I couldn't agree more that Bennett is the perfect child God has blessed all of us with. We are so lucky! I love you guys and know that this has been so difficult at times. Know that I am sending you love and comfort. I love you!

Yasmin
comment by Becky Brooks on 09/28/2007
we continue to pray for precious Bennett...he has rooted himself deep in our families heart.

I was thinking the other day of how it takes 21-30 days to form a habit. we have been crying out on Bennett's behalf and yours now for 40. Praying for the Specks is one of the sweetest habits we have formed and we have no intention of breaking it. We are here for the long haul....ready to celebrate each milestone and rejoice in each victory.

Know that we are lifting up your hearts tonight...asking the Lord to bring continued comfort and confidence. You are bringing such honor to His name as you walk this path.

You are deeply loved...

Tony, Becky, Pate and Benjamin
comment by Aunt Nancy on 09/28/2007
We love you, Bennett. Keep up the good work. We are praying for your
complete recovery.
Hugs, Aunt Nancy
comment by Linda Arnett on 09/28/2007
Kelly and Travis--I'll never forget a "rocking chair moment" almost 39 years ago when I finally had even a glimpse of what a great sacrifice God, the Father, made in giving His Son for me! Having just begun to experience the depth of parental love, that was a very insightful, emotional moment. I understand your great and abiding love for your precious child! Bennett will continue to bless you with much joy! He will continue to be your teacher as well as your student. Thank you for all you are teaching me and for trusting those of us who care so much with these significant moments in your life. (I definitely see a book in your future....you are both excellent writers...and Bennett is such an inspirational hero!) We will continue to pray continually and hold you close in our hearts as you walk toward the future. I am so proud of you and your faith!
comment by Debbie Turk on 09/28/2007
The group Accapella had a song I remember - "He's still working on me, to make me what I ought to be". God does have a plan for sweet Bennett and He gave Bennett the perfect parents to help implement the plan. God was worked miracles in Bennett's life and He is still working. Our prays will stay with your wonderful family. God will not give you more than you can handle, you need to just trust Him.
comment by L & D Holder on 09/28/2007
Kelly and Travis,
We are lifting you up in our prayer. Baby Bennett is so precious. Thank you for sharing with us the precious times and allowing us to be a part of your lives. My prayer is that God will strenghten you and Bennett, bless you with peace and healing, and feel the Holy Spriit comfort and calm you. We love you.
comment by Randy and Carolyn on 09/28/2007
At times things may not be at all as "we" planned or anticipated and yes, not always as we prayed they would be. However, the strand of three,with the Lord in the midst can CONTINUE to accomplish things that seem impossibe and guide us through circumstances we can't imagine. This little angel was placed with a Mommy and Daddy of great physical and mental strength, exceptional personality, adaptability, huge amounts of love to share, a loviing extended family, a tremendous support group, and above all a trust and faith in their Heavenly that is steadfast. I know we feel this way and our God is all knowing. The blessings you are going to receive have just begun. From experience, we know the fear of the medical unknown, therefore we know somewhat of the hurt you hearts have. We're praying for each of you as Bennett continues to grow stronger and soon get to look around his little blue room and not the NICU! We love you and have you on our hearts. You are teaching so many so much.
comment by Amanda and David on 09/28/2007
Kelly and Travis - As so many have said here already, our hearts are heavy for you as we think and process the news from your meeting today. We want you to know that we love ya'll and that we are continuing to pray for complete healing. God is mighty and powerful. And He continues to show us in the most obvious ways and in the tiniest and subtle of ways. We pray for eyes to always see Him at work and for hearts of courage to follow where He leads and to trust Him. Bennett is a precious fighter and while only a month old God has already used him in powerful ways to bring Himself glory. We are eager to see all the ways He will use Bennett through the years to come. We know God will be using you and working through you as well. We are inspired and in awe of how you both always say "yes" to Him and seek to bring Him glory through all things. It can't be easy - but you both seem to do this with such faith and ease. We continue to pray. We love, love, love. And we eagerly wait and watch to see the Lord do mighty and powerful things in Bennett's life.
Love you both,
The Pittmans
comment by Carolyn on 09/28/2007
I am continuing to pray for your sweet boy! God has such a wonderful plan for him! (Friend of J. Beaver)
comment by Colleen & Phil on 09/28/2007
Sweet Bennett has accomplished so much during his first 6 wks of life; I can't even begin to imagine what the Lord has in store for him for his future. We know it is going to be amazing and filled with so much love! The Lord has been with all three of you from the beginning and he is not going to desert y'all now and neither are we. Sweet Bennett is so blessed to have y'all as his parents; God definitely chose the right parents for sweet Bennett. We love y'all and will continue to pray and pray for all three of all!
comment by danae on 09/28/2007
dear travis, kelly, and bennett,
my heart is heavy for the news received today, but still hopeful in our God. i was thinking of samuel setting up an ebenezer stone and saying, "thus far has the Lord helped us." what a beautiful memorial, and just as true for bennett! we continue to pray fervently for his complete healing, and specifically for each obstacle he currently faces. we look forward to the day we see pictures here of bennett with nothing at all on his face or in his mouth/nose! and i thought it was important to share with you good that God is already doing through the challenges you are facing at this time. my prayer life and faith has been increased ten-fold over the past 40 days, as i lift ya'll up often throughout each day and as i see the testimony of God's faithfulness through ya'll and your amazing baby boy. your nurse is right, bennett will be and IS exactly how God wants him to be. and God is already using him mightily for His Kingdom. i am in awe of the beauty of His Body as it gathers together -- though cities and states and countries apart!-- to pray for precious bennett and to praise His Name. thank you for sharing this with us. danae<><
comment by christy on 09/28/2007
Your strength and willingness to share with us continues to amaze me. Thank you for allowing all of us to walk this journey with you and thank you for the priviledge of lifting Bennett up in prayer to our heavenly father. My heart is with you. I pray that any future 'meetings' will only provide new positive results, but as we all know Bennett is just as perfect as he can be.
I will be praying for blankets of peace tonight.
All my love...
comment by Lynley on 09/28/2007
We are praying that God continues to give you peace and courage for this journey. Have a good weekend with your incredibly precious baby.
comment by Katie Meeks on 09/28/2007
Sweet sweet family. You three are always in my prayers. I thank God daily for the blessing of your sweet little warrior. I wish there were better words, and maybe at times prayers just dont seem like enough. But still I will pray so very hard for little Bennett's sweet little body in everyway. I pray for your strength as you walk this road, and will wait anxiously for the day you guys get to take him and home to kiss and love all the time.
comment by Tafanie Gregory on 09/28/2007
Your family is such an awesome example to me. Thank you for constantly glorifying God with your lives, your pains, your struggles, and your precious joys. I'm praying for you all. I haven't even met Bennett, and he's already so dear to me.
Thank you, Lord, for sweet Bennett. Thank you for forming each of us in Your image.
comment by Matthew Taylor on 09/28/2007
In keeping with the thoughts expressed in some of the other postings, here are a couple of stories of individuals with cerebral palsy who have achieved great things athletically and academically. Bennett's story is already an inspiring one, and he will continue developing a bold narrative of courage, conviction, and faith that makes his parents, family, and friends very proud. We will all be there for you every step of your journey through this sweet child's life.

KSC sophomore medals in Brazil
Runner wins gold and silver at 2007 Parapan American Games

Mark Peterson
Issue date: 9/27/07 Section: Sports

Believe it or not, Keene State College is home to a world-class athlete.

KSC sophomore Sabra Hawkes was one of four Americans to medal at the 2007 Parapan American Games in Brazil this past August where she earned a gold and silver medal.

The Parapan American Games is in its third year of Paralympic sport as a result of the hard work and perseverance of the athletes and Paralympic committees involved.

Hawkes earned a silver medal in the 100-meter dash as well as a gold medal in the 200-meter dash on Aug. 10. The games took place at Joao Havelange Olympic Stadium in Rio De Janeiro, Brazil. Hawkes claimed the gold by running the 200-meter dash in 31.26 seconds.

"To do so well, when I didn't expect to do well was really awesome. I didn't know what I was really up against until I got there," said Hawkes.

Hawkes, 19, a Rockport, Mass. native was born with a mild form of cerebral palsy. Cerebral palsy is a neurological disorder that causes some immobility in the left side of her body.

The disorder is believed to have been caused by a cut off in oxygen at birth. Fortunately, Hawkes' cerebral palsy is not a degenerative disease; it will not worsen as she ages.

The disorder causes Hawkes some difficulty in moving her left hand, and causes her to walk with a slight limp. Despite this, she says the biggest problem posed to her by her condition on the track is what she calls "starter's reflex."

Hawkes has had a problem with staying still and calm while waiting for the starting gun at the beginning of the race.

In the past, her inability to remain still has caused some faults and late starts.

Hawkes first got into running in middle school where she ran cross-country. The high school she attended did not have a track team. Her parents searched for meets she could compete at and hired a personal coach for her.

Hawkes is also in her second semester as a member of the KSC women's track and field team. She says that running with the track team has helped improve her performance even more.

"Sprinting with a team makes a huge difference because you have people to push you everyday. The Keene track team has made a humongous difference," said Hawkes.

Hawkes' running ability has brought her all over the place. She attended the Olympic Training Center in Chula Vista, Calif., and the 2007 U.S. Paralympics Track & Field National Championships in Atlanta, Ga. before heading to Brazil.

Hawkes is also hoping to compete in the Paralympics in Beijing, China next September, following the 2008 Summer Olympics.

"I just hope I get to go. As long as I work hard as I've been, it's a really good possibility. I'm really looking forward to going on [to Beijing]," she said.



Luke gets a top score despite cerebral palsy

A student from Grantham has achieved one of the highest marks in the country, despite suffering from cerebral palsy.
Luke Clapton, 19, who lives in Tamar Court, scored the third highest mark in the country as part of his AS-level Business Studies.

Luke, who works in the cafe at Morrison’s in Grantham town centre, said: “I was pleased when I found out I had got such a high mark because in the practice papers I could not even pass.”

Luke will start University on Monday after also achieving A-levels in mathematics and accounting.

Luke’s lecturer at Grantham College, Linda Chapman, said: “This is a significant achievement for Luke who has cerebral palsy and finds written work very challenging.”

She added: “Achieving this certificate has given Luke an extra qualification which will give him the edge over other applicants when applying for jobs in the future.”

Luke will be studying business management at the Scarborough campus of the University of Hull and hopes to be an accountant one day.

Luke said: “I am looking forward to starting university and living in Scarborough.

“The course will help me towards being an accountant.”
comment by Bethany on 09/28/2007
I stopped by to see if there was an update this afternoon. I'm lifting your family to the Lord and pray for peace and strength for the days ahead.
comment by Martha Rogers on 09/28/2007
Sweet Friends, thank you for sharing the update. I know it is not what you were hoping to hear. I want to encourage you in the CP thoughts though. One of our favorite people in the world is Diane Logan. She has CP but has done everything in life she has ever wanted to do. She went to school, graduated college from Auburn, goes to all the games now, and is a successful working woman who is in charge of a huge office. She is feisty and can do anything. She is fearless and truly a warrior in the hand of God. She believes that God blessed her by allowing her to have CP. She says that she believes she teaches people that no matter what you can do for yourself and serve the Lord faithfully. I know you as parents want your Bennett to have all the joys of this life. CP will not take them from him. One thing that Diane says is that her parents never let her say, " I can't do it". Her parents taught her to be confident in herself and to work hard. And she does. Your Sweet Bennett is cherished by the Lord. He will not let his foot slip. He is Bennett's shade at his right hand. Bennett will probably have a relationship with the Lord that only we can imagine. The Lord is close to you as well. Diane says that her parents were chosen for her; that they were her best friends and teachers. You are this for Bennett. HE has prepared you for this day. You have been chosen to love and cherish your sweet boy. God gave him to you. See HIS great and loving hand giving you this incredible boy because He knows you alone can teach Bennett how to walk through this life. You are amazing people. Keith and I have looked up to you both for years. I am not surprised that GOD chose you for this journey. HE is mighty in you. HE will give you all you need. We love you, friends. M and K
comment by Jerri Harrington on 09/28/2007
Dear Kelly and Travis,
I am so moved by your faith and your love for your sweet little Bennett. I know your heart aches as you think about the challenges that may come his way in life. But I am sure you know, like I do, that some of the most extroidinary Christians have had extroidinary physical and neurological challenges....Bruce Chadwick comes to mind right away. Wanda Marshall and Phil come to mind, too. And there was a lady who attended a Bible study and became a Christian in the 80's who was dear and precious to our family, so much so that we adopted her as our "Aunt May". She embraced the Christian faith like no other person I have ever known, giving up smoking the day she was baptized. That woman had been injured by child abuse and had brain damage which caused her to be disabled. She also had asthma that was severe enough to cause her to have seizures. She was a beautiful Christian woman who graced the body of Christ with love and joy from the moment she was converted at the age of 52. She had a purity of vision, accepting and giving God's love unconditionally. Long story short, I thought I was helping May when she came into my life, but she continues to have a profound affect on my view of God and my Christian walk, although she died more than twenty years ago. Bennett's challenges may be disheartening to you at first, but as God has already used his young life, I know you are convinced that He will continue to do so. Bennett will most likely be a spiritual giant like my sweet friend May, like Bruce Chadwick, Wanda Marshall, and so many others. Bennett will be in my prayers permanently.
comment by kyle and jennifer wade on 09/28/2007
The Lord created Bennett in His perfect image . . . He ordained you as Bennett's parents . . . He will be faithful to provide, strengthen and support you. May you be reminded that your family is much prayed for and much loved. blessings and grace.
comment by Tabitha Murray on 09/28/2007
Just know you ALL are being prayed for soooooo much by our family. That will not stop.
Tenderly
the Murray's
comment by Frank, Courtney, & Rhett Wilbert on 09/28/2007
We are still praying for y'all. Thank you for sharing Bennett with all of us. He has certainly touched and transformed lives already...just imagine what he will be doing in another few years!!
comment by Pansy and Lyle on 09/28/2007
Kelly and Travis, your faith, your hope, and complete trusting in our Father is an inspiration to all. Thank you for showing true Christian parenting. Little Bennett's future is God's direction. Whatever that is, you will adore and love that sweet baby forever, as you place your hands in the Lord's to guide you all. We love you immensely and pray unceasingly for you all.
comment by Robin and Jeremy on 09/28/2007
We are thinking of and praying for you constantly. I know your meeting today must have been tough. But we will wait on the Lord to work more miracles! What a blessing that Bennett's nurse was able to assure you that he will be exactly who God wants him to be. Also know that you are exactly the parents God wants Bennett to have!

All our love,
Robin and Jeremy
comment by Lisa Girouard on 09/28/2007
Kelly and Travis,
What the nurse said about God making sweet Bennett exactly who he will be is true but I also believe God knows the right parents who can handle any situation and will love their children with abandon. I know the things the doctor said were heavy and hard to hear. I have no doubt what wonderful parents you are already and will be for all your children. Sweet Bennett is such a blessing to all of us no matter what and he will continue to be.
You all are constantly on my mind, heart and prayer.
Love you all,
Lisa
comment by John, Elizabeth, Chloe & Mark Fortune on 09/28/2007
My heart is heavy that precious Bennett may face challenges in the days to come. How we wish we could hug you now! We want Bennett to be healed completely and still believe that God can bring miraculous healing to his little body and his brain. He already IS your perfect child - this is so evident in your posts and the pictures you've shared. We pray that God will give you great strength and courage. We pray that Bennett will soon be breathing on his own. We pray that God's mighty power be shown through Bennett's determination. We pray that any challenges he faces be minimal. We pray that the doctor's and therapist's hands touch Bennett tenderly in their work to help him heal. We miss you friends! We long for the time to come soon when you have Bennett home with you! We send our love.
comment by Jenevieve on 09/28/2007
I am so moved every day by your faith and courage, and I pray that God will continue to surround your family with His presence and love. Through Bennett, so much glory has already been given to God, and I know indeed "Bennett will be exactly who God wants him to be".
comment by joan martin on 09/28/2007
Travis and Kelly,
I have prayed for your darling little boy. He is one of God's tinest little sheep and is in His care. There is no one more powerful and magnificient than our God, and Bennett is under His protection. I prayed for Bennett to be a healthy boy, full of vigor and for him to follow God all of his life.

You both be sweet and tell Bennett that he has a friend in Arizona!!
I will continue to pray.
Love, Joan
comment by anonymous on 09/28/2007
Your faith and trust in Him is truely inspiring. God is living and breathing thorugh Bennett. Not only do you have an amazing little boy but faith and optimism that inspires us all. Thank You for sharing the Joy that is Bennett with us!
comment by Griff, Tracy and Emily Machinski on 09/28/2007
Travis and Kelly,
We can only imagine how heavy your hearts must be right now. When we see pictures of Bennett and read your updates we are constantly reminded of one of our favorites verses in scripture. Psalm 139:14..."I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." That's Bennett...one of God's wonderful masterpieces, a priceless work of art in the eyes of our Master. We love each of you and continue to pray for you all. We look forward to the day when you can bring Bennett to Jacksonville--we have many friends who feel like they know you and just can't wait to meet you!
Love and Blessings....
comment by Jonathan, Jessica and Simone on 09/28/2007
We are praying for you even more now as you think through what this means for you and for Bennett. God has given you a very special son and we are anxious to see how he uses your sweet Bennett; I know that he already has. We love you guys.

J, J & S



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